The 4 Signs Your Wife Is About to Cheat on You

More than likely you’re not going to catch your wife cheating on you. However, there are some signs that you shouldn’t ignore.

Perhaps you feel that things just aren’t quite right in your relationship, yet you can’t figure out what it is.

Well, she could be thinking about cheating.

It could be a case of your wife being strangely attracted to another man and she’s on the edge of cheating.

In fact, at this stage most men are convinced that she is having an affair.

The truth is, she hasn’t done anything.

So, how can she tell if she is about to cheat? The following are some signs that should provide insight.

Sign #1 – She Doesn’t Seem to Care - Perhaps she used to criticize things you did (or said), but now she doesn’t seem to care at all.

Perhaps she’s given up on believing that you’ll give her the “thing” that is missing in her life.

Once a woman has mentally given up, it leads to a certain level of numbness that can be easily detected.

Sign #2 – She Often Speaks About a Specific Man - Do you notice that she is constantly talking about a specific man that she knows?

This is one of the easiest tells. Women tend to do this when they are interested in a man, as you probably noted in your little sisters somewhere along the way.

If she talks about a man all the time and then stops talking about him, you really should beware.

It could be a sign that she in on the “edge of cheating”. Her thoughts about him have taken on a new form. And in her mind, she may have already visualized how everything would go.

Sign #3 – Your Gut Says Something Isn’t Right - In some cases the only clue that you may have is a feeling in your gut that something is just not right, and many times your gut is right.

Even though your initial interpretation could be that she has already done something. When in fact, you’re picking on the “fantasizing” and the “preparation”.

Trusting your instincts is important and even if you haven’t seen any of the other signs yet, you may want to go ahead and believe what you are feeling. Unless you are already dealing with major trust issues, you should listen to what your gut is saying, since it is probably right about the situation.

Sign #4 – You Rarely Have Sex - More than likely when you were first together your sex life was great; however, if you don’t seem to have any intimacy left in your relationship, then this may be a sign she is thinking about cheating with someone.

It becomes very difficult for her to desire you when she has been “daydreaming” about some other guy.

In some cases, she’s not thinking about cheating. It’s just a case of a guy not understanding how to press the right buttons. The good news is whenever you take the steps to fix your sex life, you’ll often improve the overall relationship.



Charles James is the creator of Super Seduction Power. A book that teaches guys how to tap into their natural “seduction powers” to become her “seductive super hero” – so that she wants you and only you.

How To Seduce Your Wife: The Very Best Approach

Step 1: Seduce Your Wife The Easy Way

When most guys are attempting to seduce their wives, they make a lot of mistakes.

Here’s how it typically works, the guy will realize that he’s in the mood and he’ll start thinking to himself, ”it would be nice to have some right now”. And then shortly after that, he’ll go up to his wife and ask her if she wants to do it.

Although I often warn my clients against this type of approach, in reality, it
does sometimes work.

Of course, that doesn’t make it effective. You see, the problem with the “just ask her if she wants to do it” method (that a lot of guys default to) is that the success rate is miserably low!

The worst part is over-time it subtly “brain-washes” the guy into believing that his partner is:

  • Sexually Boring
  • Not attracted to him
  • Not in love with him anymore
  • etc.

From his perspective, it will deeply feel as though she has a low sex drive.

(It’s kind of like how a “not-so-funny” stand-up comedian will deeply feel as though he’s in front of an audience that doesn’t have a sense of humor – just because the crowd doesn’t laugh as much as he wants them to.) THE REAL SOLUTION: HE NEEDS TO BE MORE EFFECTIVE

Getting back to our example…if the guy’s wife ends up agreeing to do it, it often leads to “low enthusiasm sex” – where it doesn’t take a psychic to realize that she just can’t wait for it to be over.

In life, there is always a better (more evolved) way of doing things.

People have the ability to lose weight (based on CERTAIN DECISIONS).
People have the ability to gain weight (based on CERTAIN DECISIONS).
Comedians have the ability to get funnier (based on CERTAIN DECISIONS).
Husbands have the ability to get better at unlocking her “fun sexual side” more often (based on CERTAIN DECISIONS).

And when in comes to upgrading your sex life, the very best approach is to set some sort of goal.

That has to be the first thing you do!

Step 2: Declare what you want

It doesn’t have to be something specific, but you have to mentally establish what you’re looking for.

So it could be as simple as saying to yourself, “I want to have sex more often – with a higher percentage of high quality (mutually excited) sex.”

Whenever a customer asks me, “How can I get more sex in my relationship?”, I know that he’s really asking.

He’s really asking: “How can I get more high quality (mutually excited) sex in my relationship?

Unless you’re completely inexperienced with women, you know there’s a big difference between “boring (looking at your watch) sex” and “high-energy deep-kissing (mutually-excited) sex”.

And by the way, when I say “customers”, I’m referring to customers of my secret underground report titled “Super Seduction Power” ( It’s not heavily advertised. However, it spreads through whispering ‘word of mouth’. In fact, you can read over 120 pages of case studies and client feedback: @

So after you have established your goal, the next thing you want to do is shift your mindset so that from now on, you’re thinking in terms of likelihoods.

(So what does that mean?)

Well, first of all, that means you are NOT thinking in terms of:

  • Does she have a high libido or low libido?
  • Is she attracted to me or not?
  • Is she still in love with me or not?
  • Would she prefer to have sex with a different guy?

That’s how average guys think.

You’re not an average guy. You never were an average guy.

That’s why you’re going to think in terms of likelihoods.

When you think in terms of likelihoods:

  • It forces you to place the emphasis on your actions (and how they affect her) + your reaction to her (and how that affects her) and what you say to her…
  • It forces you to constantly understand THE TRUTH to getting her aroused
  • It forces you to ignore all of the “bad advice” that is all over the internet

I have had conversations with clients where I am able to successfully get them to recall a time when their wives were really aroused, super horny and “starving for it”…

And the interesting thing is, the guy is then able to realize that she has the ability to get turned on…if he does things A CERTAIN WAY.

THE WRONG WAY: If you think in terms of ‘she has a low libido’ or ‘she hates sex’ or ‘she could care less if she has sex’, your brain will shut off.

On the other hand: If you think in terms of likelihoods, you’ll focus on the REALITY that she’s been extremely sexually aroused hundreds of times in her lifetime – and then you become focused on WHAT YOU CAN DO to increase the likelihood that she’ll get horny more often.

FACT: If you do things A CERTAIN WAY, you will get her horny.

(It’s kind of like how the inexperienced comedian at some point learns that if he says things A CERTAIN WAY, he’ll be perceived as “funny” by the members of the audience.)

Let’s get to the good part…

You see, in order to seduce your wife the right way, you have to make sure you are good at a few “basic skills”.

Obviously, if you do things that have been proven to get her aroused in the past, then it will increase the success rate (i.e. it will increase the likelihood that she will crave being embraced by you in a sexual way).

For example, let’s just say that you noticed that every time you watched a movie with a love story element, she ends up wanting to make passionate love.

And to really put it in perspective, the last 10 times you two have watched a “perceivable corny BUT romantic” movie, she ended up getting very affectionate and sexually aroused shortly afterward.

If that’s the case (and observation), then it would be reasonable to assume that “watching a love story” (or having a conversation about a couple you know that just fell in love)(or having a conversation about the time when you two first fell in love)(or something designed to trigger those feelings) would have a higher success rate than saying “hey do you want to do it” (which is what most guys default to).

Remember most guys (i.e. Average Guys) think about wanting sex [that's Step 1 for them] ==> And then they just ask her two seconds later if she wants to do it [that's Step 2 for them].

When you do things a CERTAIN WAY (i.e. the right way)(i.e. the higher success rate way), you follow a similar process as the Average Guy, except you squeeze in a series of important steps BEFORE YOU ASK for the purpose of increasing the likelihood.

It looks like this:

You think about wanting sex [that's Step 1 for you] ==> And then you do SOME PROCESS that “secretly/covertly” gets her affectionate/horny/aroused/flirty [that's Step 2 for you] ==> And then you initiate in a smooth way [that's Step 3 for you]…

So to sum everything up:

Part 1: State your goal – either out loud or quietly to yourself (i.e. “I want more high quality sex in my relationship.”)

Part 2: Have the mindset of: [A] “Doing anything you can think of” that is going to increase the likelihood that she will have a real urge/craving for sex.

Part 3: Think of times in the past when she was turned on more so than normal. 

<< Note: You’re only doing this to remind yourself NOT to label her as having a low sex drive. It’s kind of like the angry comedian who stops labeling the “crowd” as NOT having a sense of humor.>>

It’s that simple.

It’s just like anything in life: Everything becomes simple and easy when you know what decisions to make.

Talk Soon,
CR James


CR James is the creator of:

  1. The website: - which sells an instant downloadable ebook that reveals 65 smart tips for making a woman crave sex (based on CR James observations and tips learned over the last 13 years)Here’s one email from a customer.

    .[This is a ground-breaking book that every man should read at least three times.]

  2. The free report @ - This is the site where guys can subscribe to free tips, secrets and seduction recipes while also getting a free copy of the ebook: 7 Seduction Mistakes.